Podcast: EP 96 Alignment or Hustle? Let’s Talk

Podcast: EP 96 Alignment or Hustle? Let’s Talk

I have an important message for you.

 

If you’re like me, you’ve seen a lot of coaching going around in the last year that preaches the power of alignment to manifest whatever you want. And I love that message. I believe in the power of alignment, meditation, and manifesting. But there’s somthing going on with this message that is getting twisted. And that’s when it leaves out the part about hustle.

In this episode, I gives some truth talk about the importance of effort, work, or hustle (whatever you want to call it) in making your dreams come true. It’s based on a natural law and nothing happens outside of natural law. So let’s change the conversation and speak the truth: our dreams come from alignment and hustle working together.

“You have to have effort. It’s natural law.”

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show notes

  • What’s behind the alignment message that many successful business owners are teaching right now (3:00)
  • Why effort is an essential ingredient to success (7:00)
  • Hustle doesn’t mean burnout but it does mean picking up the phone (10:30)
  • What to do if you’ve been waiting on perfection to take action (14:03)

     

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    Podcast: EP 95 Awakening Your Greatness with Darleen Santore

    Podcast: EP 95 Awakening Your Greatness with Darleen Santore

    I cannot wait for you to hear from my new friend, Coach Dar.

     

    I met her when we were both speaking at an amazing event recently and within minutes I knew we were on the same page. I am so inspired and impressed with her story, her work, and her new book, and I was so happy to bring her on the show so you can hear from her as well.

    As a Board Certified Occupational Therapist, CEO & Founder of Performance Meets Purpose Consulting, author, and keynote speaker, Coach Dar is passionate about helping people break through adversity to achieve greatness. Recently named Senior Fellow of PathNorth—an organization of world leaders and CEOs of Fortune 100 companies—her powerful message continues to reach a global audience.

    An inspirational woman with the drive to give back, Coach Dar was awarded the Most Inspiring Woman of 2017 by the WNBA, recognized in the 2018 VoyagerPhoenix series titled Trailblazers: Rewriting The Narrative, and is a founding member of WISH (Women in Service and Hope) for the Society of St. Vincent de Paul in Phoenix. Coach Dar is also a United States Ambassador for the Global Pay It Forward Day Initiative, driven by the belief that #RaisingTheBar includes acts of kindness that leave every person and every place we encounter better than when we found them.

    In this episode, Coach Dar teaches how to find a vision that will fuel you through a bounceback, key principles to bouncing back, and what your greatness is really about.

    “When we hit adversity, we tend to forget all the things that are good in us.”

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    show notes

    • The series of setbacks that Darleen lived through in order to learn how to bounceback (3:30)
    • How to use the power of vision when you’ve lost sight of what you want (9:30)
    • How faith helps us bounce back from our biggest challenges (18:30)
    • What Darleen did when she found out her fertility options were different than she had believed for 20 years (22:45)
    • What Darleen has learned from coaching pro athletes (30:30)

     

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    Podcast: EP 94 Permission to Offend with Rachel Luna

    Podcast: EP 94 Permission to Offend with Rachel Luna

    I recently met this firecracker of a woman and loved her message.

     

    When I met Rachel a few weeks ago when we were speaking at the same event, I knew I wanted to have her on the podcast so you could feel her light and learn from her wisdom.

    Rachel Luna is a Certified Master Neuroscience & Life Coach, international speaker, and host of the top rated podcast, Permission to Offend where she talks faith, worth and wealth. Forbes rated her one of the Top 11 Inspiring Female Entrepreneurs to Follow on Instagram (@GirlConfident) and her work, which goes beyond cliches, rah-rah speeches and platitudes and dives deep into the root of the issue, has been featured in Success, Latina, Huffington Post and on Lifetime TV. 

    Born and raised in New York City, Rachel, who calls herself, “A magnet for miracles,” comes from a life of resilience. Despite losing both her parents to AIDS, struggling with eating disorders in her teens and battling alcoholism and depression in her early 20’s, Rachel has never allowed herself to be limited by life circumstances. Instead, she persevered and when she was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer in the summer of 2019, Rachel tackled it the same way she does everything – with grit, tenacity, faith & confidence.

    These experiences, along with her decade of service in the United States Marine Corps and tour of duty in Iraq during Operation Iraqi/Enduring Freedom have given her the strength and ability to not only handle adversity, but to thrive in it. Her courses have helped over 3,000 women (and a few fellas) gain clarity, confidence and massive business growth, many of whom have crossed into six and seven figures with ease. Rachel has helped thousands of people around the world (over 90 countries to be exact) through her weekly podcast episodes, email newsletters, speaking tours, and workshops. 

    In this episode, Rachel shares the why and how behind speaking your truth and being kind at the same time. She teaches the important principles around owning your voice and strengthening your relationships through it.

    “Seek to understand instead of fighting to be understood.”

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    show notes

    • What it means to express your beliefs without making someone wrong (2:50)
    • The difference between your identity versus your roles and responsibilities (5:50)
    • Why sharing your shameful stories can create connection (15:40)
    • When to expect rejection and what to do with it (21:05)
    • A tool for getting over the fear of messing up (29:45)

     

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    Podcast: EP 93 Your Future Self with Dr. Benjamin Hardy

    Podcast: EP 93 Your Future Self with Dr. Benjamin Hardy

    I’m already on my second round of reading this book.

     

    The only guest I’ve invited on my show 3 times is my friend Benjamin Hardy. He is so smart, so good at explaining how to be your best self, and so genuine that I always want to talk to him about his work. His newest book is out and I’ve already read it twice.

    Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist and is the world’s leading expert on the psychology of entrepreneurial leadership and exponential growth. His PhD research focused on entrepreneurial courage and transformational leadership. Before completing his PhD, his blogs were read by over 100 million people, he published his first major book Willpower Doesn’t Work, and he was running a 7-figure online training business. Since finishing his PhD in 2019, Dr. Hardy has published 5 additional books, including three co-authored with the legendary entrepreneurial coach, Dan Sullivan. His books have sold hundreds of thousands of copies and he is a sought-after teacher and speaker at corporate and entrepreneurial events as well as Fortune 500 companies. He and his wife Lauren are the parents of six kids and live in Orlando, Florida.

    In this episode, Ben shares how to think of being your future self now, why that’s so important, and how it impacts every part of your life today.

    “Your future self is your greatest guide. They love you more than you love yourself.”

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    show notes

    • How to be true to your future self (5:30)
    • What it means to choose your future self versus your present self (8:30)
    • Why changing yourself starts with being, not doing (18:42)
    • The process Ben uses to get clarity (26:20)
    • What happens when you go from needing to wanting to knowing (35:10)
    • Why knowing what you want is important (45:10)

     

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    Podcast: EP 92 Progress Honey, Progress

    Podcast: EP 92 Progress Honey, Progress

    How about progress over perfection?

     

    It’s a new year and a new season of the show and I have a lot of creative energy flowing. I also am thinking of what I’ve learned about the power of focusing on making progress instead of focusing on perfection in achieving goals. It’s one of the most helpful shifts I’ve made in my life and I know it can be for you too.

    In this episode, I share a story from my own life in the past year and how I have learned to focus on progress over perfection in my fitness. I’m also sharing my best tools and tips for setting progress-oriented goals because those are the ones that help us grow.

    “Choice is the highest level of the human experience.”

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    show notes

    • Why it’s so important to let yourself dream (5:30)
    • How to set goals based on progress, not perfection (7:50)
    • A story from my own life about overcoming perfectionism (10:05)
    • How to focus on a progress mindset (15:02)
    • The power of proximity to aid progress (20:40)
    • The goal setting strategy that lets you set progress-oriented goals (23:10)

     

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    Podcast: EP 91 The 5 Pillars of Health with Brooke Hemingway

    Podcast: EP 91 The 5 Pillars of Health with Brooke Hemingway

    Health is wealth. So let’s talk about it.

     

    Of all the success habits we talk about on the show, the one that sits at the top of my list is health. I invited my friend Brooke on the show to share some of the best tips that she has taught me about taking care of our bodies and our minds. It makes such a huge difference in all areas of life, and I know you’ll feel empowered by her insights on how to do this.

    Here’s Brooke’s story in her own words: “I spent 20+ years in the gym setting teaching classes from MMA style workouts to vinyasa flow.  I received my degree in kinesiology from SDSU in 2002 and pursued my love of movement, working in top gyms in San Diego and LA. During that time I decided to take my studies into medicine, receiving my BSN from Mt St Mary’s in 2005, and going on to become an ICU RN. After 10 years I felt my heart calling me back to WELLNESS. I respect medicine and those who work in it, but in reality it didn’t align with my philosophy on health and how to truly keep one out of the hospital.  I came full circle back into health.  Since 2015 I’ve been building a massive wellness business based off premium quality supplements that address root healing.  Gut health, insulin resistance, and inflammation are at the core of almost all health issues and symptoms that have you feeling tired, overweight, under motivated, and sick.  That’s where I focus by combining a customized supplementation system, simple lifestyle and food modifications, and mindset support.

    In this episode, Brooke shares the powerful story of transforming her own relationship to her health, as well as her best tips to maintaining the 5 key pillars of health in your own life.

    “Health is wealth.”

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    show notes

    • The difference between Brooke’s early career in health and where she is now (4:00)
    • Why gut health and supplements are so effective and important (13:00)
    • How to think of health as the foundation for success in all your dreams (15:50)
    • A tip for making water a pillar of your health (17:50)
    • Why daily movement can save your life (21:40)
    • How to make sleep one of your strongest pillars of health (28:14)
    • Simple ways to boost your nutrition (33:14)
    • Why your self-talk and mindset about your body is an essential pillar of health (44:36)
    • The story behind Brooke’s annual event Align (50:40)

     

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