Podcast: EP 9 The Power of a Morning Ritual

Podcast: EP 9 The Power of a Morning Ritual

I’m sharing one of my favorite habits.

 

For all the success principles I love to teach, there is one that is incredibly important to me. It’s a morning ritual practice that I’ve been using for years. I’m not perfect at mine, but I’m committed to it, and it has made all the difference in my well-being and success over time.

I recorded a solo episode on this topic to share the essential components of a powerful morning ritual so that you can make your own (or re-visit your current one). I’m a big believer that you are your own best life coach, so take this information in and create what works for you.

Let choice, not chance, be what’s governing the life you are consciously creating.

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show notes

  • The minimum amount of time you should give yourself in the morning (4:24)
  • What it means to invest in the vessel (4:45)
  • The 3 components of a morning ritual (6:45)
  • Why affirmations are powerful ways to start your day (11:01)
  • How visualization prepares you for your best day (12:10)
  • The power of physically moving at the start of your day (14:22)
  • What my morning ritual looks like (16:25)
  • How to remove distractions from your morning (18:50)
  • Why consistency matters over feelings (26:55)
Pay attention to how it makes you feel. Does it inspire you or expire you?

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Podcast: EP 7 Protect Your Peace with Trent Shelton

Podcast: EP 7 Protect Your Peace with Trent Shelton

How much do you value your personal peace?

 

I am bringing you something special from the archives today.

This week’s show features an incredible friend and guest, Trent Shelton, as we share inspiring gems around self worth, gratitude and generosity, and protecting your peace. Trent is a former NFL player, self worth advocate, and has built a massive platform online inspiring others. Trent was a previous guest on my annual free Gratitude Series in 2018 and this conversation was so rich with life gems, that I wanted all of you to have access to it.

You can also join in on my current Gratitude Series program for free by registering at www.GratitudeSeries.com

When you learn to appreciate everything you have, you will realize that you have everything you need.

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show notes 

  • How Trent went from a pro football athlete to a super influential self-worth coach (0:48)
  • Why we all need rehab from something (10:20)
  • How to practice gratitude as a habit (13:55)
  • What to do if you don’t think you are enough (21:45)
  • How to anchor yourself to your worth when you’re in a funk (26:07)
  • What it means to protect your peace (29:56)
  • What Trent has learned about generosity (34:09)
  • What to keep in mind during a challenging time (45:11)

If you want to keep it, give it away.

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Podcast: EP 7 Making Room for the New In Your Life

Podcast: EP 7 Making Room for the New In Your Life

I love fall so much.

 

It is my favorite season and I am feeling so cozy. I’m spending time thinking about my year (only about 10 weeks left in 2019!) and what I want to let go of before the year ends. I’m a big believer that when we let go of things we don’t need anymore, we create room for what we now need to come in. This episode is where I’m sharing some of my best practices for letting go and making room for what you are ready to receive.

There’s nothing missing in your life. You simply must make room for it.

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  • One of the most powerful influences on creation (3:12)
  • How to counteract the tendency to focus on what you’re missing (7:20)
  • Things to clean up before the end of the year (9:23)
  • Tips for decluttering your life little by little (13:05)
  • How to know whether to keep something in your life or let it go (18:22)
  • What happens when we hold onto something we no longer need (19:45)
  • How to let go of relationships that have expired (23:50)
  • Why forgiveness is an important part of letting go (26:35)
  • What judgment does to us (34:15)
Even if the hurt isn’t your responsibility, the healing is your responsibility.

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The Approval Addiction

The Approval Addiction

I’m excited to share with you a brand new video that I created just for you around a very real and relevant topic…

The Approval Addiction…and How To Take Your Power Back.

We’ve all experienced seeking approval and validation in someone or something outside of us. It’s part of being human.

Yet the challenge is we can sometimes give away our self esteem in the hustling and auditioning for outside approval.

Whether it’s validation from a parent we are seeking, the next credential or endless social media likes, it can be an easy trap to fall into and that steals our joy.

Are you stuck in seeking approval and validation from everyone and everything else outside of you?

Learning to show up for yourself by yourself is key to creating and cultivating thriving self esteem, self confidence, and greater sense of inner peace and joy.

 

Discover the 3 keys to take your own power back and thrive…

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While you’re there, click subscribe so you can be the first to see other new video sessions as they are released. I have some great videos in store for you!

PS – Can I let you in on a little behind the scenes moment? Before shooting this video on approval, my amazing videographer offered his opinion that he wasn’t the biggest fan of my jeans for this video. He was on the fence. I thought about it and then told him, “Isn’t it ironic for this topic?” I smiled and said, Thank you yet I love these jeans and now I’m for sure wearing them.” He smiled and we laughed and then filmed this segment – enjoy!

Cheering you on in creating your own healthier, happier, authentic life!

 

Tiffany Peterson

Part 2: Self Care = Success

Part 2: Self Care = Success

The Evening Ritual

I’m excited to elaborate on part two in a three-part series of your Self Care = Success conversation. In part one of this series, we talked about the power of your Morning Ritual – how you’re waking yourself up, how you’re beginning your day, getting centered, getting grounded, investing in yourself, how you shape your day, to shape your energy, your focus, your passion, your enthusiasm, and your time. On the other side of the day is looking at your Evening Ritual and how you transition your day to sleep and preparation for the next day. The way you wake your brain up has massive influence to your life , results, and your success – and the same thing on the flip side is how are you putting your brain to bed?

Consider that. Do you just randomly get in bed at all different times of the night? Sometimes you’re in bed a 10:00 pm, sometimes it’s one in the morning, and it can be a range of time frames, right? And I’m not saying that everything has to scheduled to the exact minute, that isn’t how I live my life either. Yet it is having some awareness to how you’re showing up with your full wellness, including your sleep and reduction of stress in the evening. So let’s take a little inventory on the other side of your day – let’s look at your night. On a scale of one to ten, ten being high, one being low, do you have a regular, consistent evening ritual of how you transition your brain into going to bed or going to sleep? With the same scale, how would you currently rate your current quality of sleep? Are you sleeping well? Are you waking up energized with the day before you? Do you find yourself with lots of thoughts, and staying awake, or struggling with being able to turn off the mental chatter? Just tune into that. Do you feel like your day completes peacefully or in a hectic manner? Just simply become aware, and now with that new awareness you can ask yourself, “What would I rather experience in transitioning from day to sleep?”

hugging tabletLet’s take a deeper look at your evening ritual. There’s a couple of pieces and points I want you to consider. When you get clear on your ideal evening ritual, I want you to ask yourself, “When is my technology being turned off?” Some of you sleep with your technology, right? Like literally, it’s as if you’re cuddling that cute little iPhone or that Samsung or your iPad, whatever it might be. You might be a little too attached to that technology, right?

I have no judgement about it. Are there are times my technology has been in my bed? Yes. However, when we think about high-level living, conscious living, levels of creating high performance, I doubt it includes having our technology wrapped into us like a comfy blankie, right? So ask yourself, “When does my technology go off?” Does it always come in the room? Do you fall asleep to your technology, whether to a television or to the Internet or social media apps? What is that like for you? Now that you’re getting more clear, make a decision – when is my technology off for the most part? When is your ideal time frame to be complete with it? Maybe you give yourself a range within half an hour, typically, or an hour – decide what time frame your technology is off and out of your hands. I encourage you to have at least thirty minutes, ideally, that your technology turns off before going to bed or sleep. If you need to, you can start with fifteen or twenty. But fifteen to twenty to thirty minutes from the time you get off your technology before you try to go to sleep is the ideal range that working towards will support you increasing your high performance for the next day. Once your technology has been put to bed (pun intended!) that’s where we create a conscious evening ritual. Think of it as tucking yourself in, in a really gentle, kind way, that you’re taking better care of yourself so you can show up more fully present, passionate and alive with the people and the projects that matter most to you.

journal-writingNow that your technology is off, consider implementing another success habit which is called Night Before Planning. If you’re especially the type of personality that keeps ruminating and thinking about all the things you need to do tomorrow, one thing that might help you tame that, and therefore sleep better, is to do a little night before planning. Outline what your number one priorities for the next day are, both personally and for business. Then list all the different tasks, or people you need to call, or follow up with. Some people keep a notebook right by their bed when ideas and inspirations come. But looking at your day of what’s to come the next day, you’re already starting to prepare successfully, to focus. Imagine when you wake up; you already have a game plan for the next day, and all night, your subconscious mind has been working those details out. I find that by writing it down, doing a little night-before planning, I’m creating a more peaceful night of sleep and a power surge to my productivity the next day. It’s like the weight is off, and I’ve put to bed all of the things that want to run around inside my brain, by writing them down. That might help support you as well.

hot teaFinally, consider what would feel like a restful activity for you. In that same thirty minutes, we’re off our technology, we’ve done a little night before planning, and now we are into some space to make a self care deposit. Whether that be reading, meditation, lighting a candle, making hot tea, taking a warm bath, writing a gratitude list from the day, or utilizing some products or essential oils that help you rest. Ask yourself, ‘What are restful activities for me? What would feel great and nourishing to me? What would be my ideal Evening Ritual to create?’ Keep in mind, this investment of a small amount of time, is a big deposit in your self care and thus your ultimate success in life and business. The way you put your brain to bed, has everything to do with the quality of sleep you’re receiving, which in turn has massive influence to how you begin your following day.

The topic of quality sleep is getting more and more attention today. Celebrity fitness trainer J.J. Virgin, who’s phenomenal in her content on weight loss and health and wellness, says if she can only pick only one weight loss tip it would be getting a quality seven to eight hours of sleep a night. There is also research surrounding the world’s wealthy. Looking at their attributes, (remember success always leaves clues) –the top one to sleepingthree percent of the world’s wealthy, on average, get seven or more hours of sleep a night. Now that might contradict what you’ve thought before, that you need to burn the candle and need to work harder and more to make more money. The reality is – is the quality of your life and the quality of your relationships and your results has everything to do with the quality of your sleep and overall self care.

Make yourself a bigger priority in your life and become conscious of how you put yourself to sleep at night. Create your own turn-down time, and a little bit of time to just disconnect from the world, your technology, a little time to nurture yourself, maybe that hot tea, some journaling or reading a great book, some yoga, whatever may help put you in a more restful place, will be well worth every ounce and moment of that time to help increase the quality of your sleep, which then influences the next day, which then invests in your success– they just continue to grow upon one another.

You’re worth the time.

Try it out for 30 days and see the powerful impact of applying this effective success discipline. I look forward to hearing how it goes for you!

Cheering you on!

Tiffany Peterson

Self Care = Success

Self Care = Success

This may sound counter intuitive, but one of my solid, savvy SALES strategies is excellent self care.

And it may sound even more odd to you that in the last two years since I’ve gotten serious about my own self care (which means I’ve also worked LESS time on my biz), I’ve actually experienced more success in business growth and sales income. Yes, it’s true. I’ve worked less and made more money. And had more fun doing it.

Becoming more “selfish” may be the sales advice you need.

Let me sum it up succinctly:

NL-Self LoveSuccess in sales at the foundation is fueled by your degree of self confidence. People like to buy from confident people – it shows leadership. How you feel about yourself (physically, mentally, emotionally) has a direct impact on your self confidence.

So in essence your self care = self confidence = influence on sales success.

Does that make sense?

Plus, when you are fried, burned out, exhausted, always on demand to everyone else’s needs, are you showing up as your best, most positive self?

I doubt it.

See, we’ve been taught that being selfish is bad and being selfless is good.

And while I’m not talking about the extremity of narcissism and only thinking of yourself 24/7. I am asking you to consider that for many of you reading this right now (yes, you!), you’re likely in need of a self care tune up.

Last week in my own study, I read the following from Randy Gage in his new book, “Risky is the New Safe.” It’s worth reading twice…

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Isn’t that juicy?!

So I have a few coaching questions & assignments for you to consider to help you increase your self care and increase your sales:

  • Begin your day with even 10 minutes of personal time for just you. Pray, meditate, stretch, read, or journal. Keep the noisy world (cell phones, lap tops) out of your first sacred 10 minutes. Get grounded with you.
  • Take an inventory on a blank piece of paper or inside a journal of, “What makes me happy? or When am I the happiest?” Let it free flow. Pick one to do this week off that list.
  • Create an evening routine that helps you unplug from the world and technology and reconnect to yourself. Take a hot bath, read a book, or drink a warm tea. Put yourself to bed in a nurturing way.
  • Ask yourself this question, “If I were to take 5% more action towards better self care, I would _______” and journal the ideas that come up for you. Pick one habit over the next 30 days to implement regularly.
  • Get outside. Time in nature has proven to be one of the most grounding and healthy habits for one’s mind and body. Whether it’s your back yard or climbing Everest and everything in between, more time in the fresh air will help you.
  • BONUS…indulge yourself every once in awhile. Buy the shoes. Get a pedicure. Play that round of 9 holes. Whatever you usually wait to do until it’s your birthday, surprise yourself with a sweet indulging “Just Because” you exist!

When you are nurturing yourself with awesome self care and priority, you have so much more to give to others…plus you have more joy doing it!

Try this out this next month, okay? And let me know how it goes. I would love to see you increase your self care and your sales this month!

Cheering you on!

Tiffany